156: The Buyer Confidence Gap That’s Costing You Millions | Brent Adamson

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April 22, 2025

Release Date: Apr 22

Business-to-business commerce is broken. Today’s customers find themselves overwhelmed by too many options, too much information, and too many obstacles. The result is often an inability to execute any but the safest of purchase decisions, frequently resulting in no decision at all.

Today’s guest is Brent Adamson, he’s a world-renowned researcher, author, presenter, trainer, and advisor to B2B commercial executives around the world.

He’s here to argue that the real key to B2B sales success is to focus on boosting customers’ confidence in themselves and their ability to make large-scale, collective decisions on behalf of their company rather than sticking with how traditional sales have worked.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why sales success hinges on buyer self-confidence, not seller expertise
  • How “frame making” helps reduce decision friction in complex buying groups
  • What to do when content marketing becomes part of the customer’s confusion
  • How emotional calibration can humanize your pitch and build trust faster
  • How to coach customers through their own internal process using a simple audit

In This Episode:

  • 00:16 – The surprising origins of The Challenger Sale
  • 01:30 – Why segmentation research gave way to selling insights
  • 02:51 – The seller crushing quota in the middle of a recession
  • 05:07 – How Neil Rackham predicted Challenger’s longevity
  • 06:21 – Pushback: “Relationships still matter!”
  • 08:12 – From product to solution to insight as the competitive edge
  • 10:18 – Why leading with “you’re selling wrong” fails
  • 11:20 – Framing the shift: Selling must evolve because buying has
  • 12:46 – The rise of buyer indecision in a world drowning in content
  • 15:06 – “Smartness arms race” and the downfall of content overload
  • 16:05 – 20-person buying groups that don’t know how to decide
  • 17:38 – Why decision fatigue is killing commerce
  • 20:30 – The real opportunity: Making buyers confident in themselves
  • 21:55 – Coach vs. expert: The power of preserving buyer agency
  • 24:35 – How younger or newer sellers can still bring massive value
  • 25:58 – Use this phrase to add instant credibility as a new seller
  • 26:09 – Playing the role of connector, not expert
  • 29:08 – Personalizing outreach through social proof and curation
  • 30:05 – Adding subtle emotional language to increase engagement
  • 33:41 – The Frame Making model: Establish, Engage, Execute
  • 36:11 – “It turns out that…” audit: Avoiding surprise buyer stalls
  • 38:26 – Build a customer-facing “sequence of events” map
  • 40:15 – Expedient’s frame making mindset: Win by helping customers decide faster
  • 42:26 – “If we’re going to lose, let’s lose early”
  • 44:00 – The most powerful thing a customer can feel after a sales call
  • 45:56 – Teaching empathy through language and emotional calibration
  • 49:45 – Hypothesis-led empathy: How to learn what customers feel
  • 51:18 – The overlooked ROI of solving for what customers feel

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